How to Safely Leave an Abusive Relationship: Legal and Safety Resources for Los Angeles Victims

July 31, 2025

How to Safely Leave an Abusive Relationship: Legal and Safety Resources for Los Angeles Victims

Leaving an abusive relationship is one of the most courageous—and dangerous—steps a person can take. For victims of domestic violence in Los Angeles, safety planning and understanding your legal rights are critical parts of that process. At M.C. Law, P.C., Attorney Mayasha Christian is here to support you with compassionate legal guidance and the protection you deserve.


Understanding the Risks—and Your Rights

Abuse comes in many forms: physical, emotional, financial, and psychological. When someone decides to leave, the risk of violence often increases. That’s why having a safe exit strategy and a strong legal plan is essential. California law provides protections for victims, including emergency protective orders, temporary restraining orders, and permanent restraining orders—all designed to prevent further abuse and offer peace of mind.


Step 1: Build a Safety Plan

Before you leave, it's important to think through a strategy that minimizes risk. A safety plan may include:


  • Identifying a safe place to go (a trusted friend, relative, or shelter)
  • Keeping a hidden “go bag” with essentials like ID, money, medications, keys, and important documents
  • Turning off location tracking on devices
  • Knowing whom to call for help (911, hotlines, legal advocates)


There are also several shelters and organizations in Los Angeles that offer emergency housing and crisis support.


Step 2: Know Your Legal Options

Once you’re in a safer place, legal protection should be a top priority. Attorney Christian can help you pursue:


  • Domestic Violence Restraining Orders (DVROs): These court orders can bar the abuser from contacting or coming near you, your home, or your workplace.
  • Emergency Custody Orders: If children are involved, the court can grant temporary custody for their protection.
  • Support for Divorce or Legal Separation: Filing for divorce or separation may be necessary to permanently distance yourself from the abuser.
  • Protecting Your Rights in Criminal Cases: If your abuser faces criminal charges, you have the right to be informed and protected as a victim.


Step 3: Lean on the Right Support Systems

You don’t have to face this alone. In addition to legal guidance, we encourage you to connect with:


  • Los Angeles Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-978-3600
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
  • Local nonprofits and shelters, such as the Downtown Women’s Center or the Jenesse Center


Attorney Christian collaborates with local support resources and advocates to ensure your safety and peace of mind throughout the legal process.


Step 4: Take Legal Action with Confidence

Legal proceedings can feel overwhelming, especially while recovering from trauma. At M.C. Law, P.C., we walk beside you with respect and determination, helping you file the appropriate petitions, attend hearings, and secure the long-term protection you need.


You Deserve Safety and Support

Leaving an abusive relationship is a powerful first step toward healing—and you don’t have to do it alone. If you're in Los Angeles and need legal assistance with a domestic violence matter, contact M.C. Law, P.C. today. Attorney Mayasha Christian is ready to help you reclaim your life and move forward safely.

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