Discussing finances and future planning can be uncomfortable when it comes to marriage. Yet, as many couples discover, clear communication and thorough preparation can lay the foundation for long-lasting harmony. Prenuptial agreements—also known as “prenups”—are increasingly common tools for couples who want to clarify their rights and responsibilities before walking down the aisle. Unfortunately, misinformation often leads to misunderstandings and unnecessary anxiety. At M.C. Law, P.C., in Los Angeles, we believe in empowering clients with knowledge. Today, we’re tackling four common myths about prenuptial agreements to help you separate fact from fiction.

Myth: Prenups Mean You Don’t Trust Your Partner

One of the most pervasive myths is that a prenuptial agreement signals distrust or doubt. In reality, many couples who choose to draft a prenup have complete confidence in their relationship. They view the agreement as an opportunity to have honest, forward-looking conversations about finances, property rights, and future goals. Rather than indicating a lack of trust, a well-constructed prenup can foster greater understanding, open communication, and mutual respect for each other’s financial interests.

Myth: Prenups Are Only for the Wealthy

It’s easy to assume that prenuptial agreements are only necessary for wealthy individuals or those who own multiple properties and substantial business interests. However, couples of all income levels can benefit from clearly defining their financial landscape. Whether you’re worried about protecting a family heirloom, outlining rules for handling debt, or ensuring both parties agree on how to manage future assets, a prenup can provide peace of mind. In California, these agreements help protect both parties, regardless of the size of their bank accounts.

Myth: Prenups Are “Set It and Forget It” Documents

Some couples believe that once they’ve signed a prenup, it becomes an unchangeable document destined to gather dust. On the contrary, a prenuptial agreement can be revisited and amended, provided both parties agree. Life events—such as career changes, the birth of a child, or the acquisition of new assets—may warrant adjustments that keep the agreement fair and relevant. With proper legal guidance, you can ensure that your prenup evolves with your relationship, reflecting each spouse’s evolving needs and priorities.

Myth: Prenups Lead to Unfair Outcomes

While it’s possible to have a poorly drafted agreement that favors one partner, an ethically created prenup aims for fairness. Both parties should be represented by their own legal counsel to ensure that terms are equitable, transparent, and fully understood. California courts will not enforce agreements deemed unconscionable or signed under duress. By approaching the drafting process openly and honestly—and with the help of skilled attorneys—couples can create a prenup that protects both sides and strengthens their trust in each other’s integrity.

Prenuptial agreements don’t have to carry a stigma. Rather than casting doubt on a relationship, they can serve as valuable roadmaps that guide a couple’s financial life through all of marriage’s twists and turns. At M.C. Law, P.C. in Los Angeles, we help clients navigate California’s legal landscape to create prenuptial agreements that are well-informed, fair, and adaptable. By debunking the myths and separating fact from fiction, you and your partner can enter marriage with a deeper understanding, a clearer vision, and a more confident commitment to each other’s futures.